So, You’ve Been Asked to Leave The Venue—Why Has This Happened?

It’s a frustrating and embarrassing situation—you’re out with friends, having a good time, and suddenly, security asks you to leave. Whether it feels fair or not, getting kicked out of a venue usually happens for a reason. So, what went wrong?

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It’s a frustrating and embarrassing situation—you’re out with friends, having a good time, and suddenly, security asks you to leave. Whether it feels fair or not, getting kicked out of a venue usually happens for a reason. So, what went wrong? 

 

1. You’ve Had Too Much to Drink 

Most commonly, venues will ask people to leave if they appear overly intoxicated. If you’re slurring your words, struggling to walk straight, or acting erratically, staff have a responsibility to remove you—not just for your safety but for the safety of others. 

 

2. You’ve Been Aggressive or Disruptive 

Even if you don’t think you were out of line, arguing with staff, getting into an altercation, or even being too loud can be seen as disruptive behaviour. Security won’t take chances when it comes to keeping the atmosphere safe and enjoyable for everyone. 

 

3. You Broke Venue Rules 

Every venue has a code of conduct / set of rules you must follow—whether it’s about bringing in outside drinks, smoking in restricted areas, or using fake IDs. If you’re caught breaking these, you’re likely to be shown the door. Find out more about our code of conduct here

 

4. You Didn’t Follow Staff Instructions 

Refusing to follow requests from bar staff or security—whether it’s to calm down, move to a different area, or stop a certain behaviour—can result in removal. Even if you disagree, it’s usually best to comply in the moment and discuss any issues later. 

 

What Can You Do Now? 

  • Stay calm – Arguing won’t help and could get you banned. 

  • Find a safe way home – If you’ve been drinking, make sure you get home safely. 

  • Reflect on what happened – If you think the removal was unfair, consider politely reaching out to the venue later to discuss it. 

 

Getting kicked out of a venue isn’t the end of the world, but it’s worth understanding why it happened to avoid repeating the situation. Look after yourself, respect venue rules, and make sure your night out stays fun—for you and everyone else!